I recently celebrated a
birthday and I find myself constantly thinking back to my younger years. Of
those years the only words that I can use to describe myself are bold,
adventurous and brave. Funny enough, it is those times that I prayed the most
for boldness! As I get older, I have become more mild and calculated in my
decisions.
I had the occasion to visit with a fairly new friend. We laughed and
squealed with glee as we talked about our undergraduate years. We bonded over our desires to make a mark on
this world. We also bonded over our desire to create a household conducive to
having an orderly family life. Though she was a few years my junior, I listened
to her concerns and marveled at how similar our plight were. I realized that we
were women of a certain age. Our priorities had shifted with time. We were
shells of our former naïve selves, and even though we relished our youthful
times, we did not mind the grace and dignity that time and age had afforded us.
You can recognize women of a certain age because they are endowed with the
wisdom to appreciate their past (the good and the bad). Women of a certain age
have the ability to look back at their experiences and realize that more
experiences and lessons will come.
As I left the gathering, I realized that
though at times I lament the passing of my youth, I continue to hold on to the opportunities
that being a woman of a certain age has afforded me! To all Divas and Divos of “a
certain age” out there, relish and treasure your time. Live and be in the
moment!
I had the occasion to visit with a fairly new friend. We laughed and
squealed with glee as we talked about our undergraduate years. We bonded over our desires to make a mark on
this world. We also bonded over our desire to create a household conducive to
having an orderly family life. Though she was a few years my junior, I listened
to her concerns and marveled at how similar our plight were. I realized that we
were women of a certain age. Our priorities had shifted with time. We were
shells of our former naïve selves, and even though we relished our youthful
times, we did not mind the grace and dignity that time and age had afforded us.
You can recognize women of a certain age because they are endowed with the
wisdom to appreciate their past (the good and the bad). Women of a certain age
have the ability to look back at their experiences and realize that more
experiences and lessons will come. 
